At eleven, Emma received a letter from Victoria through her therapist.
She had not seen Victoria in three years.
The letter contained no request to meet.
Emma, I told you that your father wanted things he did not want.
Good.
I made you responsible for Sophie when you were a child yourself.
Good.
I threatened to send you away because I wanted you afraid enough to obey me.
Daniel had to stop reading when Hannah first showed him.
Emma read it later.
Victoria continued:
You did not cause my debt, my jealousy, my fear about the house, or my choices.
Emma placed the letter down.
Hannah asked:
“What do you want to do?”
“Nothing.”
“Okay.”
A year later Emma asked whether Victoria was “better.”
Daniel answered:
“She’s doing work to be safer.”
“That’s not what I asked.”
He smiled.
“No. I don’t know if people become ‘better’ like a switch.”
Emma eventually chose one supervised meeting.
Victoria apologized specifically.
Emma did not hug her.
At the end she said:
“I don’t want you to be my mom.”
Victoria cried.
“I understand.”
Emma continued:
“But you’re Sophie’s mom.”
“Yes.”
“I want Sophie to be okay.”
Victoria nodded.
“So do I.”
That was the relationship.
Not stepmother and daughter.
Two people connected through someone they both loved.
Boundaries made it possible.
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